Word is beginning to circulate about the new documentary “The Dating Project,” in which Family Theater Productions has partnered with Paulist Productions and MPower Pictures. Hitting theaters around the country on Tuesday, April 17, as a one-night Fathom Event, it follows five singles — two in college, and one twentysomething, thirtysomething and fortysomething — trying to find love in today’s dismal dating culture.
There are Christians in it — and the L.A.-based participant, Chris Meehan, is Catholic — but this is a universal problem, and the documentary is, as the tagline says, for every single person.
We recommend buying tickets in advance, and taking as many friends, relatives, co-workers, teammates, shipmates and roommates as you can, because, if this isn’t your problem, it’s a problem for someone you care about.
Just go to TheDatingProjectMovie.com for information on a theater in your area and to buy tickets.
People of faith may decry the state of secular dating, but as this article from the managing editor of CatholicMatch.com says, we’re no better at it than anyone else.
Honestly, as I see it, the problem with all three scenarios above is the same: people just don’t know how to date. Non-Catholics don’t know how to date. “Normal” Catholics don’t know how to date. And Extra-Catholic Catholics don’t know how to date.
Plus, add to this the fact that dating is not an end in itself — marriage is. Dating is a means to an end. But you have to use that means well and stay right in the middle between two extremes: dating just to fill the loneliness versus hardly ever dating because you think you need to get engaged after the first two dates.
And that’s what “The Dating Project” is all about. It’s based on the work of a Catholic professor at Boston College, Dr. Kerry Cronin, who is trying to restore sanity to a situation in which it’s somehow less awkward to engage in a drunken hookup with a near-total stranger than to ask someone out for coffee face-to-face.
It’s also something that vlogger and speaker Father Mike Schmitz — whose day job is ministering to students at the University of Minnesota Duluth — addresses in his latest video, released today. Inspired by seeing “The Dating Project,” he attacks the culture of “Netflix and chill,” which means anything but watching Netflix and relaxing (unless Father Mike says it).
The film is suitable for middle-schoolers (with their parents) and older. There is a discussion of pornography, but it is not graphic (and if you think your kids don’t know what that is … well, I hope you’re right).
Hope to see you all there. And if you’re looking for lasting love, throw up a prayer that we can all #DateDifferently.
Image: Courtesy Father Mike Schmitz/The Dating Project